BDSM 101

The title of this guide may already have you confused, so I’ll let you in on the half joke that I call it the beginner “advanced” guide since it is more comprehensive than most by being a collection of core concepts that commonly are separated into totally different articles. Especially these days, beginner guides tend to get dumbed down to 10 count tip lists of stolen advice and those truly interested in learning need and deserve better.

Kitty discusses the reluctance female submissives have about buying their own set of BDSM gear

Along the journey of learning more about female chastity play one of the factors that became very apparent is just how rare it is. To investigate ideas on why this may be and what grabs those actually into it, I thought a good idea to inquire with some actual female chastity girls.

After scouring the net and generally not being satisfied with any checklists out there I took matters in my own hands to make one that would be an obvious improvement. Using Excel as the main platform it may come off a bit nerdy, however the format is much easier to open and use these days.

We communicate every day. With our baristas, the bus driver, our partner, our friend-- we communicate what we need and want, even if it’s just requesting a nonfat latte. It’s important. Without communication, it would be like trying to operate in a strange country where you didn’t speak any of the language.

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